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धर्मेच अर्थेच कामेच इमां नातिचरामि।
धर्मेच अर्थेच कामेच इमं नातिचरामि॥
-में अपने कर्तव्य में, अपने धन संबंधी मामलो में, अपनी जरूरतों में, मैं हर बात पर जीवन साथी से सलाह लूंगा ।
Shaadi, or marriage, is an important social and religious event in Sanatana Dharma. In Sanatan Dharma, marriage is considered a sacred sacrament called Vivah Sanskar. It is a permanent sharing of relationships between a man and a woman. Marriage not only strengthens the bond between two individuals but also binds families and society together. A marriage ceremony is considered a sacred act in Sanatan Dharma. This sanskar establishes an ideal and stable relationship between husband and wife. Marriage is considered a traditional and idealised relationship in Sanatan Dharma. This marriage continues the traditional social and human bonds of the clan through marriage and preserves the ideals and beliefs of society.
It is not clearly found in the scriptures that more than one marriage has been written anywhere, but as we know, knowledge cannot be obtained only by reading; in fact, knowledge can be obtained by watching real life examples as well In the same way, if we remember Tretayuga, then we see that even after the death of his wife Sita, Lord Shri Ram never married again. Even once, when he was asked to remarry by rishis as they needed his wife, Mata Sita, to be present at a yagya, he refused and asked them to make an idol full of gold of Mata Sita in her absence. Similarly, when King Shantanu got remarried to a girl of another caste (if it is seen from a different point of view), the days of Hastinapur were reversed from the same day when this sin happened because King Shantanu got worldly after the departure of his first wife, Mata Ganga. And again the same way, when we talk about Satyug, we see that Lord Shiv himself did not get married for millions of years after the death of his first wife, Mata Sati, and remained a monk. Now the question comes: why did he marry Parvati Mata? So the answer is that Mother Shakti took the form of a human being as Sati, and therefore Lord Shiv waited for her rebirth, and after that, he married her. Until then, he remained a monk. With this, the Lord taught us that as a human, one shouldn’t be in the moh of the world and remarry, but rather should devote his life towards spirituality and focus on being happy with loved ones rather than finding another person as a comfort partner.
अनित्यं यौवनं रूपं जीवितं द्रव्यसंचयः।
आरोग्य प्रियसंवासो गृध्येत् तत्र न पण्डितः।।Hence, second marriage shouldn’t be an option, and one needs to understand that he or she is here on earth to serve society and be on the right path of Dharm, and one should not allow worldly attachments to overpower one’s self. Man has to understand that whatever is in this world is not ours, parents, brothers, sisters, husband, wife, son, daughter, etc.—we will have to leave them one day, so all this is not ours, so we should not be attached to them.
src : Mahabharat Vol 3 , own thoughts.
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